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Hello, ppl, I am a us citizen and planning to marry with the girl I love but also planning for a unexpected circumstances after marriage for example potential divorce etc. I love my girl very much but at this time cant trust her fully at this time as my trust after love comes late. I am planning to marry her before her visa expires and wanted her to stay in the U S with me. In case our marriage goes astray and she decides to divorce what is the potential consequences? I am in love with the girl but being extra careful, if our marriage does not go well and if she decides to leave me I want the separation as smooth and peaceful as possible. My biggest concert is is she decides or me decides to divorce based on unforeseen circumstances, will I be obligated for any financial support for her?
Thanks!

Someone who has not yet married but is already planning for a the expected divorce from the woman he does not trust should not marry.

This is especially true when the marriage will be the basis for immigration.

You will either be used as a pawn for a greencard, or accussed of being a collaborator by DHS in immigration fraud.

Have you ever heard of VAWA? Google for that and read up. A fabricated argument and a visit from the Police is all she needs to brand you an abuser and get a greencard PLUS financial support from you for 10 years even after divorce.

Hello, ppl, I am a us citizen and planning to marry with the girl I love but also planning for a unexpected circumstances after marriage for example potential divorce etc. I love my girl very much but at this time cant trust her fully at this time as my trust after love comes late. I am planning to marry her before her visa expires and wanted her to stay in the U S with me. In case our marriage goes astray and she decides to divorce what is the potential consequences? I am in love with the girl but being extra careful, if our marriage does not go well and if she decides to leave me I want the separation as smooth and peaceful as possible. My biggest concert is is she decides or me decides to divorce based on unforeseen circumstances, will I be obligated for any financial support for her?
Thanks! Most likely both for the divorce and immigration.

You are foolish - no just plain stupid - if you go through with this given what you have disclosed. I would advise you like I would my own son, let her return home single. Visit her in her home country; if in a year, your relationship is still good, have her visit you here again. If all goes well, let her go home again and marry here there at some time in the future. IF she cannot accept this, put her on the plane and run the other way.

Young men tend not to think with their heads; some women - especially ones looking for an easy life in the US - are predators who are good at manipulating men. You are wise to be suspicious. Your financial - and physical - well being is at stake.

Dont take the plunge and marry this woman, especially as you are already planning for potential divorce. It sound as if this relationship is more along the lines of infatuation and lustful trajectory, more than seeking a lifelong companion with mutual interests. Just exit the stage on the left, marriage shouldnt be contemplated under your circumstances.