withdraw support after I-751?
i married a foreign > sponsored her > I bought a house > and we have a 2.5 year old.
problems have been consistent in terms of general fidelity but they got worse just after i signed the recent and last "2 year form that would make her status permanent.
just after doing so (nearing 90 days ago) other things have happened (like some cash missing, only a few hundred, but its the sentiment, not the amount). an embarrassing dust up with a neighbors (my wife had been emailing the husband (maybe more) and his wife found out…I had to act like it was in in regular neighborly spirt)
now i have evidence of an affair. i know 100% but the physical evidence is somewhat soft. however, there are text messages and a couple emails that are fairly damming.
because of our son and the fact that we are kind of stuck in this house until it sells (its on the market now), i dont know how willing I am to go through with a divorce. it seems an annulment might be more fitting....
but regardless, I want find out if I can withdraw my support and what I have to do.
can i withdraw support and then we still live in the house together (because we are stuck here until it sells) ? we have both talked about once the house sells that a possibility that we would part ways. on my end, i would now like nothing more, but it is not feasible to make big moves until it sells.
I am pretty sure the deadline for her getting the permanent status is only a couple weeks away.
note i dont care if she gets deported that is not my goal...i just want to withdraw my support.
Withdraw what kind of support? With you having had a child together, shell ultimately be able to prove she had a legitimate marriage and get the 10-year green card even without your cooperation.
Withdraw what kind of support?
rescind my sig on- I-751...i dont care if she goes ahead and does whatever on her own but i would prefer to not enable the current process with my endorsement.
I was under impression I could withdraw with just cause even if not in divorce or annulment proceedings and that that would stop current application but that she would then be able to re-apply on her own accord- which i have no issue with...just not on my back
I called USCIS and they just kept saying there was nothing I could do after I-751 was signed by me - that only she could do something - essentially saying I am stuck. I dont get it.
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I was also thinking I could withdraw based on my having read this post on this forum:
can-petationar-wife-withdraw-joint-I751
Did I misunderstand it?
"On your back" how? Even if you get divorced, youre still held to the I-864 financial support requirements.
At this point its going to be more difficult for you to get in the way of her I-751 than to let her go ahead undisturbed. You cant rescind it, all you can do is meddle and create hassles for both yourself and her, and ultimately shes going to get it done and have the 10-year green card anyway.